What a trip this has been! We don't even know where to start since we last posted about our lives way back in February. My how time flies! So, if you didn't already know, we have a beautiful baby boy named James. He's six months old now, but it's been longer since we last posted here together. We figured it was time to do a recap on most of our adventures from April until now.
From where we sit now, we definitely count ourselves blessed that we decided to go ahead and pack our hospital bag April 2nd, because all through the day on April 4th, unbeknownst to Daily or Stuart, Daily was in labor. As she left work one of her co-workers said, "I bet I won't see you tomorrow because you'll be having your baby." We love it when people are right (sometimes).
So the time finally came. At 3 am on April 5th Daily was in active labor, even though she denied it. Stuart timed the contractions and together they decided to go to the hospital at 5 am. (Really, it was Stuart's decision. Daily was SURE they would send her home). They got to the hospital, saw the nurse, and were admitted to the delivery room. Sure enough we had to call our parents. We called Daily's first and hoped her mom wouldn't be mad at us for having the baby 3 weeks early and before she was set to come in by plane. We say this because Jame's cousin Robert was born just a few days before he was. We then called Stuart's parents and everyone was happy.
We got in and the labor was relatively fast. We didn't even have time to finish our movie! At 12:35 p.m. James was born. He was cheesy and floppy and loud, but cute as a button. For a while we were alone- just the three of us. Then we got a surprise visit from my cousin Michelle, but she brought someone with her. Daily's mom! (Daily may or may not have cried).
Not going to lie. That first night was tough. Even after an easy delivery, the needs of a baby are a lot. But, luckily James was completely worth it.
The next day Stuart's mom was there. This is her first grandchild, so it was a very special occasion for her. It was fun to have both Nana and Grammy there for the next couple of days as Stuart and Daily wrested with how to deal with not getting too much sleep (they still do this). It was a very special time for us as a family. Once our mothers left we were on our own for a little while, and we were anxious about what our future held for us. But we put our faith in God and trusted in Him to help us.
Stay tuned for the next part- "the Moveneing"...
James
Spencer
Evans
April 5th, 2016
Two deformed peas in a pod
Saturday, October 15, 2016
Friday, May 20, 2016
Eve
She gave up paradise to till the ground with her husband. She noticed that God had a plan for her beyond that of a garden- something much bigger. "Glorious mother Eve" had the perspective that I am working to cultivate.
After a particularly hard day, with little bit fighting sleep and struggling with tummy issues, I was at my wits end. I knelt down at my bed. Okay, in all honesty I curled up in a ball in bed with my legs aching for relief after carrying the little man all day long. I didn't know what to say, what to ask for. I simply knew I needed help. In the answer, I also heard my mothers voice- advice from a mother.
"He's not going to die from crying a little bit, and neither will you."
So, not necessarily the answer I wanted. I wanted a pound of chocolate and a never-tired, always energetic body. But, this answer was better. It reminded me that life isn't about being paradise. It's about learning to become like Christ. What would Christ do if a child was crying? He would simply comfort them. He could do it perfectly. I cannot, and that is okay. It gives me one more opportunity to couple with Him in this journey of mortality, marriage, and motherhood. It gives me an opportunity to teach my baby, who already knows perfectly, that Christ will answer every question- even those of reflux, tummy issues, and constant crying.
Sometimes that answer is: go see a doctor.
So, as I get up to face another day with my little boy and my husband, I remember that it's not just about getting through the day. It's also about becoming like Christ.
After a particularly hard day, with little bit fighting sleep and struggling with tummy issues, I was at my wits end. I knelt down at my bed. Okay, in all honesty I curled up in a ball in bed with my legs aching for relief after carrying the little man all day long. I didn't know what to say, what to ask for. I simply knew I needed help. In the answer, I also heard my mothers voice- advice from a mother.
"He's not going to die from crying a little bit, and neither will you."
So, not necessarily the answer I wanted. I wanted a pound of chocolate and a never-tired, always energetic body. But, this answer was better. It reminded me that life isn't about being paradise. It's about learning to become like Christ. What would Christ do if a child was crying? He would simply comfort them. He could do it perfectly. I cannot, and that is okay. It gives me one more opportunity to couple with Him in this journey of mortality, marriage, and motherhood. It gives me an opportunity to teach my baby, who already knows perfectly, that Christ will answer every question- even those of reflux, tummy issues, and constant crying.
Sometimes that answer is: go see a doctor.
So, as I get up to face another day with my little boy and my husband, I remember that it's not just about getting through the day. It's also about becoming like Christ.
Tuesday, March 1, 2016
Be my valentine
For Valentine's Day, we decided it was time to get away. We traveled down to St. George for a little sun and decided to do what we do best... eat! We started with chips and queso from Don Pedro's. They had great chips- crispy, but a little thick.
As we waited for dinner, we walked around downtown St. George and found this horse statue made from different mechanical parts.After not getting called in for dinner for about an hour (they had the wrong phone number for us), we were happy to sit down and eat at George's corner. The food was good, but the company was better. I sure do love my valentine!
We spent actual Valentine's day walking around Cedar city, going to church, and enjoying our leftovers. We even had our bubbly! (Root beer... it's our thing!)
On our way back to Ogden we stopped by Cove Fort. It is a really amazing structure and reminded us of the refuge that we receive on our long journey here on earth. I am so lucky that marriage is one of those safe havens.
Saturday, February 20, 2016
We remembered... we have a blog!
Blogging and journal writing are basically the same thing- we know they're important, but completely space doing the little things!
Anyways, here are all our progression pictures up until now. We can't believe that we are only 9 (ish) weeks from delivery of our little guy! He's so active, especially in the evenings right after dinner. At our last doctor's appointment he was 3 pounds 6 ounces, which is in the 58th percentile. He must get that from his Daddy's birth weight, because we all know that Mama didn't pack on the pounds.
Anyways, here are all our progression pictures up until now. We can't believe that we are only 9 (ish) weeks from delivery of our little guy! He's so active, especially in the evenings right after dinner. At our last doctor's appointment he was 3 pounds 6 ounces, which is in the 58th percentile. He must get that from his Daddy's birth weight, because we all know that Mama didn't pack on the pounds.
4 weeks |
6 weeks |
8 weeks |
10 weeks
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19 weeks
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29 weeks |
Monday, November 30, 2015
Week 19
So we've had a very interesting time here for the last couple of months. Yes, Daily is 4 and 1/2 months pregnant and the baby is the right size. (Almost the size of an artichoke!). Daily just isn't showing that much, but she is showing. She still looks beautiful, and will continue to do so.
Saturday, October 10, 2015
Saturday, May 23, 2015
3 o'clock in the Afternoon
So Daily and Stuart had a great date today when they decided to write a little short story together. They had some story cubes laying around and decided to roll the dice and write a story from there. We hope you like it!
3 o'clock in the Afternoon
Ellie looked at her phone and realized that her alarm was
going off. She did not know why she had
set an alarm to go off at 3 o’clock in the afternoon, but she was determined to
go and find out.
Heading out
her back door, she turned the lock and started towards her car. She realized,
however, that her keys were still sitting on her dining room table. Luckily,
her neighbor had a spare set. Maddie was a young girl, about Ellie’s age, and
while they weren’t necessarily “friends” by the normal definition, she was the
closest Ellie had come to making friends in the few short months that Ellie had
been living in Seattle.
Ellie
entered through the back gate of the small condo, hopping over the large
irrigation ditch that separated the two apartment sidewalks. It wasn’t a big deal to do it; she had seen
the neighborhood boys do it plenty of times.
There was a slight problem, she just happened to enter the wrong gate
and was completely unaware of where she was.
She heard a yelp of a large dog, who she had surprised. Ellie’s heart sank, what would the dog
do? Would it run up and bite her? Or would it maybe just growl at her
menacingly? These thoughts raced through
her head when she realized that the dog was looking at her quizzically, and not
in a threatening way. She said, “good
boy,” to not make it decide to change it’s mind. Just them she saw the dog’s owner walk up to
their sliding door.
“Hey, what
are you doing?!” yelled the owner. He looked as if he had just gotten out of
bed and was a little disgruntled at having been woken up by a girl in his back
yard.
“I was just
wondering why my alarm was going off,” came Ellie’s reply. Sometimes honesty is
the best policy and other times it makes you seem delirious. This was
definitely the latter situation.
The man
cracked a smile. “You’re trying to figure out why you alarm is going off, so
you decided to sneak into my back yard and make friends with my dog?” Ellie
felt her cheeks get red. It did sound a little ridiculous, but it was the
truth.
“Could I
just use your phone? I need to see if my friend can get my spare set of keys to
me.” The man turned abruptly and walked back into the house. Ellie took this as
an invitation to follow him. As she entered the house, she was intrigued with
the wide array of guns and workout equipment that was scattered throughout.
As the man
grabbed his phone, he said, “Don’t look so freaked out. I’m in the Army. I just
got back from training yesterday.” He stopped and smiled, “I bet you couldn’t
do five pull-ups on the bar over there.”
Ellie
laughed, “You’re probably right. I think I didn’t do much of that in high
school. I was more into basketball”
“Well here
you go, try not to get distracted about catching butterflies or something like
that princess.” He said amusingly.
“What did
you just call me?” Ellie snapped. She
dropped the phone and marched straight up to him without putting it back on the
receiver. “I’ll have you know that while
I don’t have much in upper body strength, I am an excellent runner and I can
run five times further than anything you have ever done in the Army!”
Besides, I could just have Gregory come and
compete against you. It had been a few days since her and her friend
Gregory had talked. He was living in New York now, working as a business
executive. He probably didn’t have time for his old high school pal anymore.
“Ellie, is
that you?” Suddenly, back to reality, Ellie remembered that she had dialed
Maddie’s number.
“Oh, hi
Maddie. Yes, it’s me. I was just wondering if you had my spare key?” Ellie
twirled the phone cord on her finger, twisting it every which way.
“ I do,”
replied Maddie, “I’ll bring it over to you in just a minute.”
“Thanks so
much. See you soon.” Ellie set down the receiver, strangely aware that the Army
man was sitting at the kitchen table listening intently to the conversation.
“Thank you
for letting me use your phone.” Ellie said, gathering her purse.
“Not a
problem. Next time, though, you can come through the front door like everyone
else.” The man chuckled, bringing a small wrinkle to the space around the
corner of his lips.
The man
held the back door for Ellie, “Hey,” he said nervously, “I’m new to the area
and some people from my work are going to go up the canyon and build a fire
tonight. I don’t mean to seem weird, but I noticed that you seem to be new to
the area too. Would you like to come along? They are really nice people.”
Inside,
Ellie laughed. She really was a large crowd kind of person. But, this young man
seemed kind and didn’t make her nervous like most people.
“If I can
figure out why my alarm is going off, I’d love to come.” The man smiled.
“Well, if
you’d like some help with that I’m terribly bored and really don’t want to
finish unpacking.”
“Fine with
me,” Ellie said, so they both went out the door into the sunlight. Ellie decided that the first thing to do was
to go home and wait for Maddie to get there with her keys. They got there soon enough, but the door was
locked and Maddie had the keys. Ellie was getting really frustrated; Maddie
said that she would be there in a few minutes.
“What now?”
the Army man said. “Is there a spare key somewhere that we can use? Oh yeah, your friend. Should we just go by her place?”
This was a
good idea, Maddie was one of those people who forgot what day of the week it
was. So she probably forgot to bring her
keys already. “Yeah let’s go to her
place, she’s obviously there since she picked up her phone.” It took a minute
for them to walk there, and during that time Ellie found out that the Army
man’s name was not Army man, but Jeff.
Jeff had lived out in Virginia for most of his life and had moved here
to start a new life being independent.
So they
arrived at Maddie’s house and rang the doorbell. No one answered. She rang again, and still nothing. She knocked again a third time and still
nothing. Finally she knocked on the door
and immediately realized that the door was ajar. “I think someone’s in there, you go in
first.”
Jeff pumped
his chest and flexed his muscles and dove inside without another word. The lights suddenly turned on as if a match
was struck. There was a loud
“SURPRISE!!!” and then silence, and then a loud scream.
Ellie
timidly poked her head into the house, and then quickly burst in at the sight
of her parents, siblings, co-workers, and, of course, Maddie.
Oblivious
now to the strange stares still coming from the majority of those present,
Ellie wrapped her arms around her mother who inquired as to who the “strange
young man with the gorilla-like grunt” was.
“Oh,” said
Ellie, returning to the situation-at-hand, “this is Jeff. He was helping me
figure out why my alarm was going off. It turns out I was supposed to meet
Maddie for lunch. Apparently, she had other ideas.” Turning quickly to face
Maddie, Ellie inquired, “How did you know today was my birthday? I haven’t told
a soul- well, except for my family.”
“Well, your
mother got ahold of your phone one day and looked through the people you have
called and I was at the top of the list for the past few months since you lived
here. And we got things planning from
there.” She looked up to Jeff. “I guess
we all know why you’re late now,” she snickered.
Just you
wait!” Ellie yelled. “I’ll get you back for this someday!”
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